In nation at war with itself, one town tries cup of civility

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LOVETTSVILLE, Va. – When Maureen Donnelly Morris came from adjacent Leesburg to unfastened her café successful Lovettsville, she got a lukewarm welcome. Neighbors rallied to her aid. Divisions ripping astatine their municipality and their state were acceptable aside. America's thunderous rage felt distant.

They sank posts for her parking signs. They brought star lights for the cheery abstraction outdoors, sharpened her bagel-slicing blades and contributed plants, each to herald what would go the town's societal hub and civilian communal ground, Back Street Brews.

Forget, astatine slightest for 1 divided second, red, blue, left, right, pro-Trump, anti-Trump. No 1 asked the pistillate from Leesburg: Which broadside are you on? (And she wouldn't person said, if they did. Still won't.)

In this assemblage of immoderate 2,200 and others similar it crossed the United States, neighborly ways and societal ties persist, adjacent successful a state that seems to beryllium astatine warfare with itself. It's a quieter unit than each the yelling that is driving Americans apart. But the redemption of a federation and aboriginal of its ideology whitethorn beryllium connected it arsenic the day of the Jan. 6 insurrection astatine the U.S. Capitol approaches.

At slightest among neighbors successful the café, says Moe, arsenic everyone calls her, “You’re allowed to beryllium a Republican and I don’t hatred your guts. And you’re allowed to beryllium a Democrat and hopefully you similar maine if I’m not.”

In a terribly fractious America, that sentiment tin nary longer beryllium taken for granted.

A twelvemonth aft the convulsive battle connected the Capitol by supporters of a defeated president, Donald Trump, the United States is divided successful astir each conceivable way. Shared sacrifice seems to beryllium an artifact. Against the coronavirus and different problems, we're conspicuously not “all successful this together,” arsenic the pandemic cliché claims. There's nary communal acceptable of facts.

Still menaced and present exhausted by COVID-19, Americans can't hold that it's amended to beryllium vaccinated. Elected officials, adjacent the No. 2 Republican successful the House, garbage to accidental that the duly proper, ineligible and just predetermination of President Joe Biden was not stolen from Trump. To beryllium clear, it was not.

The battles person filtered into nonrecreational sports, wherever immoderate players were consenting to forfeit $400,000 a crippled to sphere their close to exposure themselves and others to a illness that has killed implicit 800,000 successful this country. Abortion, a taxable of long-settled law instrumentality but ongoing governmental debate, is dividing the U.S. adjacent much than accustomed arsenic the Supreme Court considers whether to overturn Roe v. Wade.

Deeply analyzable questions astir race, parental rights, schooling and the teaching of past gave emergence to fiery, simplistic slogans and a consciousness among voters successful Virginia and elsewhere successful November's elections that Democrats are retired of touch. Virginians enactment the brakes connected their drift from reddish to blue, electing a Republican politician for the archetypal clip successful a decade.

The Republican Party remains successful thrall of a antheral who peddled conspiracy theories from the highest office, eggs connected section Republicans to skew predetermination laws to marque it easier for them — and possibly him — to win, and threatens Republicans successful primaries who bash not endorse his prevarication that the 2020 predetermination was a fraud.

The public is profoundly split implicit whether to judge an unassailable information — that Democrat Biden was honestly elected. In the Jan. 6 aftermath, astir two-thirds of Republicans agreed with the thought that Biden's predetermination was illegitimate and by the fall, their involvement successful seeing the insurrectionists prosecuted had declined.

To Fiona Hill, who served the erstwhile 3 presidents crossed enactment lines arsenic a Russia analyst, it each adds up to authorities successful the United States arsenic "Mortal Kombat, the video game.”

“You person to benignant of slay your enemy," said Hill, whose caller publication examines the basal causes of the emergence of Trump and different populist leaders. “It's each fundamentally framed arsenic win-loss, victory-defeat, reddish versus blue, antithetic factions and shades of bluish warring with themselves. ... The Republican Party, the enactment of the radical that I worked with erstwhile I was caller successful the Bush administration, they’ve each disappeared."

That's the warring America. It plays retired successful Washington, successful decidedly uncivil municipality meetings crossed the state and implicit the airwaves. It infects societal media, wherever people, by their ain admission, suffer their minds.

There's another, quieter, America, too. It asks astir the family. It commiserates astir the h2o measure and shoots the breeze. It's a spot wherever radical who tin beryllium Facebook-nasty are face-to-face polite. Often it meets implicit coffee.

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‘BLESS YOU’

There's nary question that Trump drove radical further into their governmental corners and made things louder, coarser and much chaotic. And the one-two punch of governmental distancing and societal distancing has taken a toll.

Trump and the pandemic “pretty overmuch ripped a spread done the halfway of town,” says Kris Consaul, a left-leaning activistic and a erstwhile municipality readying commissioner successful Lovettsville.

Into the breach came Back Street Brews, which acceptable up successful a gathering shared with the Painted Pig trade store successful precocious 2017, past expanded successful 2021 to capable the abstraction aft pandemic-plagued months of serving radical lone retired a window. The municipality got its archetypal spot to bent out, beryllium with a laptop oregon strum a guitar.

Worship groups, a new-mom gathering and assorted different java klatches person taken root. Political discussions popular up, though seldom a heated argument. And erstwhile you sneeze successful 1 cubbyhole, a alien successful different calls out, “Bless you.”

“It’s not truly a pot-stirrer benignant of place,” said Moe, who turns a superb grin connected everyone who walks in. “I conscionable don’t invitation it. And if it comes up, you know, arsenic agelong arsenic it’s respectful, you tin speech astir immoderate your beliefs are. I don’t care. If you are a staunch this oregon staunch that, I ever say, support that retired of here.”

John Ferguson, a long-retired overseas work serviceman who moved present 5 years ago, contributed flags and star lights to Back Street connected Lovettsville's Pennsylvania Avenue, a lane hardly wide capable for 2 cars to pass. He's determination often and makes runs to Costco for Moe. He was massively relieved erstwhile Trump vacated the large achromatic location connected that different Pennsylvania Avenue, successful Washington.

Ferguson was raised successful the “FDR Democrat” contented successful Hartford, Connecticut, wherever the Republicans were affluent businessmen and Democrats were astir everyone else.

A pupil of past arsenic good arsenic a vocation diplomat, Ferguson shudders astatine the caller memories of Trump connected rally stages, “strutting around, jutting retired his chin ... similar Mussolini,” the Italian fascist of World War II.

“A colossal messiness and a tragedy,” Ferguson says of the Trump legacy. When it comes to defending the integrity of elections and lasting connected defender against much insurrections similar Jan. 6, “I don’t deliberation you tin pussyfoot astir close present and surely not for arsenic agelong arsenic Trump is connected the scene.”

But what of the Democrats?

“They look to instrumentality a benignant of smug attitude," Ferguson said. “They are treating Trump voters arsenic if they’re stupid. That’s a immense mistake. It’s tremendously unsafe to alienate them.”

Erik Necciai, a advisor to national agencies, brought his household to the Lovettsville outskirts conscionable much than 10 years ago. In the aboriginal 2000s, helium worked arsenic a Senate adjutant to Democrat John Kerry of Massachusetts and Republican Olympia Snowe of Maine connected the Small Business Committee. He knows astir quaint bipartisanship. He's besides useful with a shovel.

So erstwhile different neighbour made woody posts for Back Street's choky parking, Necciai bought the concrete, dug the holes and poured the footings.

“We each person antithetic governmental views,” helium says, describing his ain lone arsenic moderate. “It's precise hard to person conversations nowadays successful nationalist spaces. But I sat present successful this java store not agelong agone ... and immoderate taxable came up, and past each of a sudden, we were solving 5 oregon six antithetic governmental problems. Russia, what bash we bash astir that? China?

“Everybody’s sentiment was greatly accepted. And I deliberation we request a small spot much of that. We unrecorded successful a satellite present wherever we are learning amended to not justice radical connected their exterior. Yet, if idiosyncratic were to travel with a peculiar chapeau — a reddish chapeau ... we instantly justice them. When we don’t needfully cognize them."

Jessica Sullivan, a nonrecreational tarot-card scholar who besides works down the antagonistic astatine Back Street, moved to Lovettsville 15 years agone to instrumentality a occupation teaching astatine a backstage schoolhouse crossed the stream successful Maryland. The municipality had a estimation past arsenic a backwater of Loudoun County, a fast-growing country of bluish Virginia encompassing the tech corridor extracurricular Washington and agrarian towns and farms.

“I retrieve thinking, beloved God delight fto maine not dice present due to the fact that this spot has thing successful it and I don’t cognize anybody,” she said. But arsenic the municipality grew successful the years since, truthful did her attachment to the people.

Now, she says, "I don’t privation to unrecorded anyplace else. ... I'm precise relaxed and chill and I don’t request anybody to deliberation the aforesaid things that I deliberation successful bid for them to beryllium a bully idiosyncratic to me."

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PERILS OF ‘MASKBOOK’

Still, Sullivan said, “we bash person a benignant of acheronian undercurrent astatine times.”

In 1 provocation, a pro-Trump parade that came done municipality during the 2020 run diverted disconnected the main thoroughfare and stopped extracurricular the location of the activist, Consaul, and her wife, Sheryl Frye, blaring horns to intimidate the couple.

It was besides successful 2020 erstwhile the mates turned their sprawling obstruction enactment into a showpiece, coating it the colors of the cheery pridefulness rainbow flag. It was meant arsenic a connection of enactment for LGBT younker who, similar others, were isolated astatine location successful the pandemic.

The festive decoration has delighted galore successful municipality portion upsetting immoderate connected the taste right.

As Consaul describes however 20 radical showed up to assistance overgarment the fence, her feline sits connected her thigh connected her structure and her roaming chickens halt to listen, heads cocked sideways.

The parade was an overt motion of friction. But down the shield of societal media, wherever you tin spout an sentiment and not person to look idiosyncratic successful the eye, the code has been harsh and confrontational.

The section weapon store owner, who routinely posts inflammatory, liberal-hating slogans connected a motion extracurricular his store and rages connected societal media, successful 2020 announced a merchantability connected AR-style rifles. The motion named the merchantability aft “krazy” Kris and her neighbor — with a mangled spelling of their names — successful a telephone to “Be Armed.”

Yet connected some sides of the divide, radical stock a statement connected a fewer things. One is that Lovettsville is simply a family-friendly spot wherever you tin nonstop your 10-year-old to the 7-Eleven unsocial without worry.

Another constituent of statement is that Facebook has fixed a fewer disfigured voices an outsized megaphone — half-hiding down the online veil that Moe calls “Maskbook.”

In earthy exchanges connected the section Facebook group, a downtown location and household displaying aggregate pro-Trump banners were denounced arsenic a “Trump dump.” From the different side, vile insults person been flung astatine cheery radical and anyone connected the left.

Many successful municipality person discontinue this online contention of cruelties. As if rubbernecking a car wreck, others can't rather look away.

In that forum, “people consciousness much escaped to conscionable accidental immoderate they privation and attack,” said the pistillate whose gait boldly displays the pro-Trump sentiments of her hubby and herself. “I've heard it all.” She asked not to identified due to the fact that of section tensions.

As she spoke, her feline jumped connected the chest-high obstruction with the 2024 Trump banner and rubbed insistently against the interviewer's face.

Off Facebook, the Trump protagonist has got immoderate wide friends and doesn't hesitate to sojourn Back Street, sizing up Moe arsenic “definitely down the middle.” "We instrumentality our small 1 for milkshakes and things similar that.”

So bash the extremist lefties. So bash the moderates. So bash the conscionable plain people.

They'll each sprout the breeze, inquire astir family, kick astir the h2o measure oregon something.

Then it's backmost to the ramparts. That's America for you.

“It’s affecting people,” Moe said of the perils of this era. “Not me. Not successful my bubble. We’re going to beryllium fine, everyone! We’re going to onshore connected our feet successful my java bubble.”

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